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Of course, people are well bred

Le 20 juin 2017, 13:19 dans Humeurs 0


But true parenting means the quality of the soul and the soundness of the soul. That is to say, it is from the inside out, not the ritual, the external, to do to others to see, in line with collective expectations, is the true upbringing.

No matter how kind we are, we live in a world of faults. Everyone has different ages, different experiences, and stories of their own. Everyone has tried to open up and cross this fault. Are those days of unspeakable secrets, sad memories, it ultimately forced to go about to speak, but saying nothing.

The fault of the world, we can not open. How to handle properly, let the people around you feel comfortable, depends on the upbringing of the individual, the so-called upbringing, previously understood more one-sided. Only know others with humility, well mannered enough. However, this is not the case.

I used to yell at my grandmother to stay at my house for a few days. And grandmother always embarrassed smile, go to you that is not used to, or live at home, steadfast. Now, I understand, grandma is not really not want to, just to our home, no matter how close, after all, is not open, less freedom. As the younger generation of the etiquette, or take away the pendulum in there.

When I was young, parents take us everywhere, teach us the way of communicating. For inexperienced children, facing new things is always smart, curious and timid. If we do wrong, the stern look of our parents will naturally make us ignorant, and we are at a loss what to do. When I grow up, everything upside down. Parents often came to the city life time at home, facing the new world flourishing, will be at a loss what to do.

Remember a few days ago with a mother to the downtown restaurant for dinner, mother always low head, behind me. Like a child, I have some good dishes, sit down and also anxious and fearful, longed to look back from time to time. When I saw her uncomfortable, I chatted with her and tore the document I paid for the money. My mother scolded me in a low voice, you tore the document, everyone around you had the certificate and could not serve it for a while. Sure enough, after half an hour, the people later ate, but we still did not serve the dishes. Mother was in a hurry and chatted with me carelessly. I couldn't help it. I ran over and hurried the dishes again. Open the tableware, the mother looked down carefully eating meals, occasionally look around some "refined and cultured people cast the" strange eyes, I saw my mother embarrassed, nose up acid. So I tried to chat with my mother and talk about my father and my childhood. Mother opened the box in the warm fire and finally released the tense spirit. The two of us soared home and ate late into the night.

Of course, people are well bred. But true parenting means the quality of the soul and the soundness of the soul. That is to say, it is from the inside out, not the ritual, the external, to do to others to see, in line with collective expectations, is the true upbringing.

The Hare And The tortoise

Le 19 juin 2017, 08:27 dans Humeurs 0


  The hare was once boasting of his speed before the other animals. “I have never been beaten,” he said, “when I run at full speed, no one is faster than me.”

  The tortoise said quietly, “I will race with you.” “That is a good joke,” said the hare. “I could dance around you the whole way.”

  The race started. The hare darted almost out of sight at once. He soon stopped and lay down to have a nap.

  The tortoise plodded on and on. When the hare awoke from his nap, he saw the tortoise was near the finish line, and that he had lost the race.

larger training center

Le 19 juin 2017, 06:43 dans Humeurs 0

When I was in college, I went to the newspaper for nearly two years. At that time, I like to interview the entrepreneurs, restaurants, cram schools and clothing stores. In a word, I'm very interested in starting up from scratch WSET level 4.

I'm not curious about how much wealth they have and how much money they make. I just want to know how they got through that tough day.


The first person I interviewed was the founder of a computer training institution across from our school, miss li.

Like most entrepreneurs, he started his own profession. He majored in computer science at the University. He worked hard from Hubei to Guangzhou after graduation. He was keenly aware of the prospect of computer development and had the idea of starting a computer study class. A year later, he returned to his hometown to start his own business. That year, he was 26 years old. In the beginning, just opened a simple computer training business at home, relying on a dozen computers, counseling several students introduced to acquaintances. Before long, he was not satisfied and began looking for a venue to prepare for a larger training center.

That was his hardest moment. The first is the money, because it is the start empty-handed, no deep pockets, the teacher took the loan hong kong wine academy, this is a very risky thing at the time. If not, at any time may go bankrupt.

Ready, to recruit the first batch of students less than thirty people, he began to recite, hard work, busy even have no time to eat, often stay up preparing to three or four in the morning.

He told me that he is the most difficult ten years of entrepreneurial career in time, that road is hard going, and go very hard, sweat.

As a result of abnormal anxiety, originally already enough hard, he still insomnia, all night long sleep. Many times, his family couldn't see him, and advised him to let go. It was not difficult to teach in his school on his terms. Only he knew, once set foot on the road, then go back, or that is not allowed back.

With such determination, he struggled forward. Now, his training institutions is computer training center the largest city, with the largest scale, the whole building is his.

Until now, he felt that it was a climb from the bottom of the valley of the day, because it is uphill, so it is difficult to walk. It would never have climbed to the point, if it had not been for the road. It is also the persistence of the road that leads to the summit now.

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